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Memoir of Identity, Courage, and Cultural Discovery
Jobert E. Abueva reflects on his international upbringing, hidden identities, and writing process behind Boy Wander, offering heartfelt insights on resilience, vulnerability, and the liberating power of telling one’s truth.
“Navigating those contrasting identities was like walking a tightrope between two distinct,
yet equally vital worlds.”
obert E. Abueva stands as a luminous figure in con- temporary literature, emerging as an award-winning author whose voice resonates with authenticity and profound insight. With his memoir, Boy Wander – A
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JOBERT E.
ABUEVA
SHARES HIS GLOBAL COMING-OF-AGE JOURNEY IN BOY
WANDER
Coming of Age Memoir, Abueva invites readers into a rich tapestry of his experiences, spanning vibrant cities such as Manila, Kathmandu, Bangkok, and Tokyo. This captivat- ing narrative not only recounts his personal journey but also reflects the unique cultural influences that shaped his identity and understanding of the world.
As the inaugural recipient of the Lambda Literary J. Michael Samuel Prize and winner of several prestigious literary contests, Abueva’s accolades speak to the impact of his storytelling. His ability to weave intricate tales that explore themes of identity, acceptance, and resilience showcases a mastery that transcends mere memoir writing. The critical acclaim he has garnered, including recogni- tions from literary institutions and notable publications such as The New York Times and The Philadelphia Inquir- er, further underscores his compelling contribution to the literary world.
Through our interview, Abueva’s depth of insight into the dualities of life, particularly in navigating contrasting identities and challenging personal experiences, emerges as both thought-provoking and inspirational. His reflections on the era preceding the AIDS epidemic and its profound effect on his understanding of sexuality resonate powerful- ly, shedding light on a pivotal time in history. Moreover, his journey from the cultural revolutions of the 1960s and